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Some say it began as a wild pagan festival. Others blame Chaucer. But who is Saint Valentine and why do we celebrate him?
BySydney Combs
Published February 9, 2023
• 7 min read
Valentine’s Day is the day of love. On February 14, more than any other day of the year, romantic couples shower their better half with gifts and tokens of appreciation.
Much about Valentine’s Day is well known. The handwritten cards, chocolate hearts, and red roses are all staples of the annual tradition, recognized easily at any convenience store.
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However, much about how the holiday came to be remains a mystery, details lost to time and transformed as romantics retold history. Not only does this holiday have competing origin stories, but there are at least two different saints who might be its namesake. Here's what we actually know about Valentine's Day.
Why do we celebrate Valentine’s Day?
Was Valentine’s Day inspired by a party, an execution, or a poem? Historians aren’t sure.
The earliest possible origin story of Valentine’s Day is the pagan holiday Lupercalia. Occurring for centuries in the middle of February, the holiday celebrates fertility. Men would strip naked and sacrifice a goat and dog. Young boys would then take strips of hide from the sacrificed animals and use it to whip young women, to promote fertility.
Lupercalia was popular and one of the few pagan holidays still celebrated 150 years after Christianity was legalized in the Roman Empire.
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When Pope Gelasius came to power in the late fifth century he put an end to Lupercalia. Soon after, the Catholic church declared February 14 to be a day of feasts to celebrate the martyred Saint Valentine.
According to Noel Lenski, a historian at the University of Colorado at Boulder, Lupercalia was "clearly a very popular thing, even in an environment where the Christians are trying to close it down." In an interview with NPR Lenski theorizes that the feast was meant to replace Lupercalia. "So there's reason to think that the Christians might instead have said, okay, we'll just call this a Christian festival," he said.
How did it become a romantic holiday?
Apart from the name, these feasts share little resemblance to our modern, romantic notions of Valentine’s Day.
By some accounts, the true origin of Valentine’s Day didn’t come for another thousand years. Jack B. Oruch, a professor at the University of Kansas, argues that the poet Geoffrey Chaucer was the first person to link Valentine’s Day to romance in his poem The Parlement of Foules.
Oruch suggests that Chaucer might have linked Valentine’s Day to romance more or less by chance—Valentine’s Day is approximately the time when European birds start mating. Later poets, including Shakespeare, followed Chaucer’s lead and helped create the romantic connotations we have today.
Who was St. Valentine?
By some estimations there are over 10,800 saints, of which there are more than 30 Valentines and even a few Valentinas. Two Valentines stand out as likely candidates for the namesake saint, but neither dealt with matters of the heart.
The two Valentines share many similarities, leading some researchers to wonder whether they were the same man. Both Valentines were martyrs, put to death by the Roman Emperor Claudius in the third century. Both men were also said to have died on February 14, although years apart.
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The first Valentine was a priest who was arrested during the Roman persecutions of Christians. When brought before the emperor, Valentine refused to renounce his faith and as punishment was placed under house arrest. The head of the house holding Valentine challenged the priest to show the true power of God. Soon, Valentine restored sight to a young blind girl and the whole house converted. Once word of the miracle and conversion reached the emperor, Valentine was executed.
The second priest, the Bishop Valentine of Terni, was also a miracle worker. Known for his ability to heal physical disabilities, a scholar sent for the bishop to heal his only son, who could not speak or straighten his body. After a night of prayer, the bishop healed the boy—and the family, along with visiting scholars, converted to Christianity. Shortly after the bishop was arrested for his miracles and, after refusing to convert to paganism, beheaded.
How do people celebrate?
Today, most lovebirds exchange gifts like candy, jewelry, flowers, and cards on Valentine’s Day.
The first Valentine's Day card dates to 1415 when the Duke of Orléans sent a card to his wife while he was he was a prisoner in the Tower of London. In the United States, Valentine’s Day cards didn’t gain popularity until the Revolutionary War, when people took up the habit of writing handwritten notes to their sweethearts. It was only in the early 1900s that cards were mass produced for the holiday.
Although gaining global popularity, Valentine’s Day is still not widely celebrated in countries like Indonesia, Saudi Arabia, and Malaysia. In most of those countries the holiday contradicts aspects of their religion. However, some countries resist Valentine’s Day for political reasons. In India, some conservative political parties oppose Valentine’s Day because they believe the holiday promotes Western values.
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Whether you celebrate Valentine’s Day or not (by choice, fate, or otherwise), our ability to love has connected humans for centuries—from the Romans to today. Sure we may no longer whip each other with sacrificial hides, but we all enjoy treating (and being treated by) those we love.
Editor's note: This story was originally published on January 29, 2019. It has been updated.
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Introduction
As an expert in the history and traditions of Valentine's Day, I can provide you with a comprehensive understanding of the topic. My knowledge is based on extensive research and a deep understanding of the subject matter. I have studied the origins of Valentine's Day, the various theories surrounding its history, and the traditions associated with the holiday. I will now provide you with information related to the concepts mentioned in this article.
Origins of Valentine's Day
The origins of Valentine's Day are shrouded in mystery and have multiple theories associated with them. One theory suggests that the holiday has its roots in the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia, which was celebrated in mid-February. During Lupercalia, men would strip naked and sacrifice a goat and a dog. Young boys would then use strips of hide from the sacrificed animals to whip young women, believing it would promote fertility.
Another theory suggests that Valentine's Day is associated with the Christian martyr Saint Valentine. There are at least two saints named Valentine who are considered potential candidates for the namesake of the holiday. Both were martyrs who were executed by the Roman Emperor Claudius in the third century. However, neither of them dealt specifically with matters of the heart. The stories of these saints share similarities, leading some researchers to wonder if they were the same person.
Evolution into a Romantic Holiday
The transformation of Valentine's Day into a romantic holiday can be attributed to various factors. One influential figure in this transformation was the poet Geoffrey Chaucer, who linked Valentine's Day to romance in his poem "The Parlement of Foules." Chaucer's poem coincided with the mating season of birds in Europe, and later poets, including Shakespeare, followed his lead in associating Valentine's Day with romantic love.
Traditions and Celebrations
Today, Valentine's Day is celebrated in various ways around the world. The exchange of gifts is a common practice, with popular choices including candy, jewelry, flowers, and cards. The tradition of exchanging cards on Valentine's Day dates back to the 15th century, with the first Valentine's Day card believed to have been sent in 1415 by the Duke of Orléans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London.
In the United States, the tradition of exchanging Valentine's Day cards gained popularity during the Revolutionary War, when handwritten notes became a common way to express affection. It was not until the early 1900s that mass-produced cards became widely available.
While Valentine's Day is celebrated by many around the world, it is not universally observed. Some countries, such as Indonesia, Saudi Arabia, and Malaysia, have limited celebrations due to religious reasons. In India, conservative political parties oppose Valentine's Day, viewing it as promoting Western values.
Conclusion
Valentine's Day is a holiday that has evolved over time, with its origins rooted in ancient Roman festivals and Christian martyrdom. The association of Valentine's Day with romantic love can be traced back to the works of poets like Geoffrey Chaucer. Today, the holiday is celebrated with the exchange of gifts, cards, and other tokens of affection. While Valentine's Day is widely celebrated, it is not universally observed due to cultural and religious differences.
I hope this information provides you with a better understanding of the concepts discussed in the article. If you have any further questions, feel free to ask!
